Discipleship: The Art of Listening
- pastorparisw
- Jul 8, 2020
- 6 min read
Each week I am putting up a video on Wednesday on my congregation's Facebook page called

"Wednesday Words on Discipleship" as we try and navigate today's climate as true and authentic disciples of Christ. You can find these videos by clicking HERE. This week I acknowledge that here in rural Iowa it may seem like racism and/or white supremacy don't exist. We are privileged to live in such a place where we don't have to witness these things on a daily basis, but that doesn't mean they don't exist. Just because a rich person lives in a rich neighborhood and never encounters poverty doesn't mean poverty doesn't exist. So it is with racism and white supremacy. These are things we might be able to say 'out of sight, out of mind.' or 'not my problem,' but in the age of mass media we can no longer claim ignorance. And as the body of Christ, we must acknowledge the interconnectedness of all things. We are ONE in Christ and if our body has a wound, we must join in the efforts towards healing. We cannot separate our experience from the experience of our siblings of color for we are ONE. We share one body. When one of us is crying out in pain, we all cry out in pain. If you are privileged enough to LEARN about racism and white supremacy rather than experiencing them, then I challenge you to learn the stories of your siblings who may not look like you, but share the same image of God.
LISTEN to your neighbors.
LISTEN to their stories through movies, TV, documentaries, Youtube videos, podcasts, etc.
HEAR their experiences by reading books, articles, and more.
Let's talk about what we learn.
What shocks you? What rubs against your skin like sandpaper? What makes you weep? What makes you angry? What inspires you to join in the march toward justice and peace? What connects with your identity in Christ?
This list of resources is an extension of the one found here:
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1BRlF2_zhNe86SGgHa6-VlBO-QgirITwCTugSfKie5Fs/edit
WATCH
AMAZON PRIME
Fruitvale Station
I Am Not Your Negro (also on Netflix)
Just Mercy
Selma
The Color of Compromise
Loving
The BlacKkKlansman
Blindspotting
The Black Panthers: Vanguard of the Revolution
Black Power Mixtape: 1967-1975
Clemency
Detroit (also on Hulu)
Remember the Titans
NETFLIX
When They See Us (The Central Park Five)
13th
American Son
Dear White People
See You Yesterday
Teach Us All
Flint Town
Time – The Kalief Browder Story
Let it Fall: Los Angeles 1982-1992
Moonlight
Freedom Writers (also on Hulu)
HULU
The Hate U Give
If Beale Street Could Talk
Emanuel
YOUTUBE (click for direct links)
Environmental Racism is the New Jim Crow (The Atlantic) (1:28)
The Look (Proctor & Gamble) (1:47)
Clint Smith: The Danger of Silence (Ted Talk) (4:23)
Uncomfortable Conversations with a Black Man (9:28) (multiple episodes)
Van Jones: The Economic Injustice of Plastic (Ted talk) (17:34)
"How Studying Privilege Systems Can Strengthen Compassion" | Peggy McIntosh (Ted Talk) (18:26)
Megan Ming Francis: Let’s Get to the Root of Racial Injustice (Ted talk) (19:38)
Black Feminism & the Movement for Black Lives: Barbara Smith, Reina Gossett, Charlene Carruthers(50:48)
Eyes on the Prize (PBS) (50 mins) (multiple episodes)
READ
Books
Dear Church by Lenny Duncan
I’m Still Here by Austin Channing Brown
Between The World and Me by Ta Nehisi Coates
The Color of the Law by Richard Rothstein
Why Are All the Black Kids Sitting Together in the Cafeteria by Dr. Beverly Daniel Tatum
Be The Bridge by Latasha Morrison
The Cross and the Lynching Tree by James Cone
Evicted by Matthew Desmond
Rethinking Incarceration by Dominique DuBois Gillard
Homegoing by Yaa Gyasi
The Color of Compromise by Jemar Tisby
March by John Lewis
The Sun Does Shine by Anthony Ray Hinton
Stamped From the Beginning by Ibram X. Kendi
Reading While Black by Rev. Esau McCaulley
One Person, No Vote by Carol Anderson
Bread for the Resistance by Donna Barber
Mindful of Race by Ruth King
An American Marriage by Tayari Jones
Children of Blood and Bone by Tomi Adeyemi
The Third Option by Miles McPherson
White Fragility by Robin Diangelo
Black Feminist Thought by Patricia Hill Collins
Eloquent Rage: A Black Feminist Discovers Her Superpower by Dr. Brittney Cooper
Heavy: An American Memoir by Kiese Laymon
How To Be An Antiracist by Dr. Ibram X. Kendi
I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings by Maya Angelou
Invisible No More: Police Violence Against Black Women and Women of Color by Andrea J. Ritchie
Just Mercy by Bryan Stevenson
Me and White Supremacy by Layla F. Saad
Raising Our Hands by Jenna Arnold
Redefining Realness by Janet Mock
Sister Outsider by Audre Lorde
So You Want to Talk About Race by Ijeoma Oluo
The Bluest Eye by Toni Morrison
The Fire Next Time by James Baldwin
The New Jim Crow: Mass Incarceration in the Age of Colorblindness by Michelle Alexander
The Next American Revolution: Sustainable Activism for the Twenty-First Century by Grace Lee Boggs
The Warmth of Other Suns by Isabel Wilkerson
Their Eyes Were Watching God by Zora Neale Hurston
This Bridge Called My Back: Writings by Radical Women of Color by Cherríe Moraga
When Affirmative Action Was White: An Untold History of Racial Inequality in Twentieth-Century America by Ira Katznelson
Articles & Other Resources (click for direct links)
“America’s Racial Contract Is Killing Us” by Adam Serwer | Atlantic (May 8, 2020)
Ella Baker and the Black Freedom Movement (Mentoring a New Generation of Activists)
”My Life as an Undocumented Immigrant” by Jose Antonio Vargas | NYT Mag (June 22, 2011)
The 1619 Project (all the articles) | The New York Times Magazine
“The Intersectionality Wars” by Jane Coaston | Vox (May 28, 2019)
Tips for Creating Effective White Caucus Groups developed by Craig Elliott PhD
“Where do I donate? Why is the uprising violent? Should I go protest?” by Courtney Martin (June 1, 2020)
”White Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack” by Knapsack Peggy McIntosh
“Who Gets to Be Afraid in America?” by Dr. Ibram X. Kendi | Atlantic (May 12, 2020)
Jenna Arnold’s resources (books and people to follow)
Resources for White People to Learn and Talk About Race and Racism
Save the Tears: White Woman’s Guide by Tatiana Mac
“Why is this happening?” — an introduction to police brutality from 100 Year Hoodie
LISTEN (Podcasts)
1619 (New York Times)
About Race
Code Switch (NPR)
Intersectionality Matters! hosted by Kimberlé Crenshaw
Momentum: A Race Forward Podcast
Pod For The Cause (from The Leadership Conference on Civil & Human Rights)
Pod Save the People (Crooked Media)
Seeing White
The Diversity Gap
Truth’s Table
Reclaiming My Theology
Resources for white parents to raise anti-racist children: (click for direct links)
Books:
Coretta Scott King Book Award Winners: books for children and young adults
31 Children's books to support conversations on race, racism and resistance
Podcasts:
Parenting Forward podcast episode ‘Five Pandemic Parenting Lessons with Cindy Wang Brandt’
Integrated Schools podcast episode “Raising White Kids with Jennifer Harvey”
Articles:
Your Kids Aren't Too Young to Talk About Race: Resource Roundup from Pretty Good
The Conscious Kid: follow them on Instagram and consider signing up for their Patreon
Organizations to follow on social media:
Antiracism Center: Twitter
Audre Lorde Project: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
Black Women’s Blueprint: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
Color Of Change: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
Colorlines: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
The Conscious Kid: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
Equal Justice Initiative (EJI): Twitter | Instagram | Facebook | eji.org
Families Belong Together: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
Justice League NYC: Twitter | Instagram + Gathering For Justice: Twitter | Instagram
The Leadership Conference on Civil & Human Rights: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
The Movement For Black Lives (M4BL): Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
MPowerChange: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
Muslim Girl: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
NAACP: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook | naacp.org
National Domestic Workers Alliance: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
RAICES: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
Showing Up for Racial Justice (SURJ): Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
SisterSong: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
United We Dream: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
The Next Question: https://www.tnqshow.com/
The Marshall Project: Instagram | themarshallproject.org
Sojo / Sojourners: Instagram | sojo.net
Black Lives Matter: Blacklivesmatter.com
Southern Poverty Law Center: splcenter.org
Campaign Zero: joincampaignzero.org
Poor Peoples Campaign: Instagram | poorpeoplescampaign.org
We Welcome Refugees: Instagram | wewelcomerefugees.com
The Innocence Project: Instagram | innocenceproject.org
Know Your Rights Camp: Instagram | knowyourrightscamp.com